I Am Happily Ever After School
Romanticize Your Life & Amplify Your Happiness
Live your Happily Ever After now - regardless of your life’s circumstances,
knowing you get to have the most epic love story with yourself.
Call on your inner Kate Winslet from The Holiday & claim your Main Character Energy today.
We’ll help you amplify your happiness, choose adventures, and fall more deeply in love with the life you live.
"I’m in a weird midlife stage and it’s making me ask, “Is this all there is?”
Any of these describe the current moment for you?
You’ve been adulting just a little too much lately & you’re bored of yourself, your same old stories, and find yourself being VERY. SERIOUS (and totally annoying yourself, btw — where has the zest for life from your 20s gone??!)
OR, you’ve been working diligently at (insert your life project - work, parenting, your business, your relationship or dating life) & you're exhausted. Yes, you’ve been dedicated, but wow - if not call out “sick” so you can lounge in lingerie & catch up on your latest romantasy.
You've been noticing this lackluster part of you that used to feel more free-spirited & vibrant… but that wanderlust of youth seems far, far away. Your inner adventurer is calling for you to at least take a different way to work - but ideally hop on a plane, to sip a cappuccino, & nibble on a double-baked almond croissant while wandering through Dublin.
Midlife is… not feeling sexy. Your knees might creak more than you wish, and you may be more zaftig than ever… but you know that non of this takes away the fact that you are worthy of pleasure, joy, & adventures. You’re cool with embracing your age, but also - can it be fun & sexy, please?!
Need a jumpstart to remembering these fun parts of yourself??
We’ve got you!
I am Happily Ever After School is Pioneering a Way to Cultivate a Meaningful, Fun Life filled with all the Romance You Desire (whether you’re single or partnered) throughout your 40s and beyond…
We know that for one of the first times in modern history, women & femmes do not need to be in a relationship to live a happy, adventurous, fulfilling, love-filled life.
And yet, our generation is one of the first that has this freedom.
Many of us do not have role models for living a sexy, fun, vibrant life - of our own choosing.
Pleasure is your trailhead to embodying your Happily Ever After…
And we are here to help you redirect your path to one of experiencing life to its fullest.
While we don’t have a lot of idyllic stories of the spinsters, old maids, crones, devoted mothers, healers, & witches -
who made their way through life in a healing, powerful way -
because almost allllll the stories we’ve learned have taught us that romantic love is all there is…
This movement, btw, isn’t a movement or manifesto against romantic love or partnership…
We love love.
This IS about claiming your Main Character Energy,
honoring your desires, and creating the life you want with freedom & choice -
to live fully & embody your Happily Ever After now - as your birthright.
I Am Happily Ever After School helps you create THAT.
Introducing…
I Am Happily Ever After School
Cultivate your Main Character Energy,
Follow Your Pleasure, & Create Your OWN Fairy Tale Ending
I Am Happily Ever After School has three goals:
Clarify Your Happily Ever After (Clarity, Babe.)
You can't have a Happily Ever After story until you know what it looks like for YOU to feel happy. And this is no easy task for most of us, as we have been indoctrinated by a cultural narrative that can limit many of us.. After working with thousands of women for 13+ years, we've determined that each of us has to start with clarity. Therefore, this is where we start at IAHEA School. Once we have a sense of what you sense you want - we get to work. When you attend IAHEA School, you’ll learn how to take that clarity and run with it…Embody Main Character Energy & Honor Your Love Story
A core tenant of our method is its emphasis on using emotional agility & manifesting principles to support your transformation. To use these principles most successfully, we must start to see ourselves as the Main Character in our Love Story. IAHEA School invites you into the key mindset shifts you’ll need to embody your own Main Character Energy, and clarifies the embodied processes we need to move through tough times & return to our faith in Love & our sense of possibility, which is key to your Happily Ever After.Increase Happiness, Adventure, & Love in Your Life
The average woman in the United States will likely experience anxiety or depression at some point in her life. Experiences like chronic illness or loss of a loved one increase as we age, and we know that life can be incredibly challenging. A lot of these issues occur alongside settling for someone else’s version of a fulfilling life, that may not reflect what you want. IAHEA School will support you say “no” to the mediocre & lukewarm & “yes” to genuine contentedness. The lessons will help you to feel your way through the painful parts of life, and eventually to alchemize suffering, as you heal & become ever more resilient. From that place of healing, you are invited to cultivate joy, adventure, and love in your life — and take actions to support this Happily Ever After. Whether you take that energy to bring your family to the fjords of Norway, go on a camping trip with your new lover in the wilderness of Alaska, or savor the sweet solitude of practicing your guitar & trying to write your best song yet - you’ll prioritize your happiness, adventure, and fall even more in love with yourself & your life.
The Secret?
I Am Happily Ever After School
IAHEA School is our proprietary framework for living a vibrant, fulfilling midlife & beyond…
The framework focuses on clarifying your values to focus in on maximum happiness, adventure, & love in your life ~ a prosperous life, indeed.
It’s this approach that makes our framework life-changing:
✅ Clarity
✅ Embodiment
✅ Action
✅ Reflection
Clarity helps you identify what needs to change, embodying your Main Character Energy will help you become magnetic to your desires.
Action will encourage you to call on your courage to make the one-degree turns necessary in life to align with your dreams, and Reflection will help you to keep attuned on your Happily Ever After path - knowing when it’s necessary to pivot.
I Am Happily Ever After School is set up bring you into alignment - and live out the love story with yourself.
Your Life. Your Love Story. Your Fairy Tale, if you will.
Unlike traditional narratives for success, here are a few things IAHEA doesn’t include:
❌ Prince(ss) Charming (sorry, babes, but we’re moving beyond this story) - although we support you to find & maintain healthy thriving relationships if that’s your heart’s desire.
❌ Hustle culture to make it happen. Your pace is sexy. If you’re into moving slow, sporadic, or speedy - we support your rhythms.
❌ A promise that you will never experience hardship, pain, or suffering. We know life can life — and we help you to honor it all.
❌ The need to … insert your patriarchal BS here - be: young, thin, White, straight, neurotypical, able-bodied, rich, partnered, blah, blah, blah, blah…. To be deserving & worthy of a Happily Ever After.
How many times have you told yourself you’re just not good enough, creative enough, smart enough, sexy enough to have it all…????
Let’s release these old stories…and be the authors of new ones!
In I Am Happily Ever After School we stop searching for satisfaction & worthiness, and we get to creating & cultivating that in our own lives.
It’s time for your Happily Ever After Life. Now.
The I Am Happily Ever After Curriculum
Inside of IAHEA School, there are eight comprehensive training seminars designed to be done in order so you can take the time to redesign your life… and feel supported along the way. You’re signing up for the Beta round of this course, so this course is being created as you are attending. Here’s the basic outline.
PART 1: CLARIFY
Training 1: Having a Love Affair w/ Life
Training 2: Writing your Own Story -
CLARITY on your desires... using Unbound principles
Finding Your Voice
PART 2: EMBODY
Training 3: Main Character Energy
Becoming the Heroine & Honoring the Path
Emotional Agility & Self-Compassion
Training 4: Becoming Magnetic to Your Desires
Foundations for Manifesting
Steps to Manifesting
Becoming Magnetic to Your Desires ~ the Energy you BE
PART 3: ACTION
Training 5: Be Happy Now
Training 6: Choose Adventures Now
Training 7: Feel In Love Now
PART 4: REFLECTION
Training 8: Your Happily Ever After Life Now
Cultivating A Luminous Life
Attunement / Pivoting as Necessary
Saying a Magnetic Yes to Your Luminous Life
How It Works
IAHEA School is taught in an online classroom where you’ll learn the IAHEA Method and solidify your Happily Ever After from start to finish. 🪄
All materials are taught via asynchronous learning: you can log in and access video / audio seminars and learn on your own schedule, making it convenient for you wherever you are in the world & whatever your schedule.
Every Friday morning Alaska Time, a new training seminar is released and will be available in your account!
If you have any questions for your instructor, Solveig, or would like to participate in the comments with other learners, you may do so underneath each seminar. Solveig responds to questions several times per week—you’re in good hands! You’ll also be able to review other questions past learners have had, and their responses, helping you cement each concept and know exactly how to move forward.
As this is Beta Round 1, we’re still working on getting pretty PDFs and things for you to download to reference ready—but it’s the perfect time to join IAHEA School, because the early adopter price is still more than 50% off during beta. You will receive any and all updates to IAHEA School as they roll out! In exchange, we’d love your feedback & would appreciate hearing how IAHEA School is helping you accomplish your Happily Ever After Life.
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By this time next year, you could be:
Sipping malbec on the patio of an Airbnb in Buenos Aires, while writing your book of poetry;
Spending your mornings playing with your toddler, and afternoons at your favorite yoga classes;
Strolling along the ocean, hand-in-hand with your new lover;
Riding your bike to pick up fresh peaches & picking a wildflower bouquet on the way home;
Lying in your hammock, composing the lyrics to your next song;
Reading books with your daughter, and redoing the lighting in your house to match your Bohemian dreams;
Hiking that trail with your pals, telling stories around the campfire, before crawling into your cozy tent under the stars;
Becoming the philanthropist you’ve always wanted to be, while leading a team in your organization in your purposeful career;
Finally do all the things you’ve had on your “someday” list, feeling a zest for life, moving at your own pace, and knowing without a doubt that you are the your most amazing love story & your happily ever after.
IAHEA School will get you there.
Join us now.
About the Founder of I Am Happily Ever After School…
Solveig Pedersen (she / her) is the founder of A Little Love Affair with Life, a newsletter about happiness, adventures, and falling in love with your life in your 30s, 40s, and beyond - whether you’re partnered or single. Solveig is on a mission to help bright-hearted leaders, changemakers, and forces for good to live with authenticity, pleasure, and joy - what she likes to call a Luminous Life.
I Am Happily Ever After School was born out of the social pressure to be partnered - in a time when women & femmes have more choices than ever before.
While her contemporaries were finding love & building families, Solveig found herself feeling “less than” and yet annoyed - with the idea that a whole & complete life meant doing things that felt like they were beyond her control - unless she wanted to settle.
Elder millennials have been indoctrinated to seek romantic love, and Solveig herself loves love, but wants to invite us to feel whole, complete, and IN LOVE with our lives - no matter our relationship status.
This course is an invitation to release old stories, step out of a feeling of boredom, mediocrity, or social comparison — and to cultivate a life you love, where you claim your Main Character Energy & your Happily Ever After.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I don’t have any idea of what I want?
IAHEA School will invite you to release old stories & pressures, and tune into your inner knowing.
Is IAHEA School for me if I am partnered / married / etc…?
Yes! The idea behind IAHEA School is that your relationship status in not a determinant of your “happily ever after.” The method unhooks partnership & other patriarchal, White Supremacist, or Capitalist ideologies from the requirements for success & happiness. You can be single by choice, single & dating, &/or partnered or married & thrive in IAHEA School.
Should I join IAHEA School if I am single & dating - and still really want romantic love?
YES! We support you to find the romantic love you desire - if you desire it! We are unhooking from the idea that your Happily Ever After is necessarily contingent on finding love outside yourself.
Is there a money-back guarantee?
You are joining a Beta version of this new course. If you find yourself dissatisfied with the course content, we will offer a money-back guarantee for up to 4 weeks after your initial purchase.
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Claim your Happily Every After life today, so you can take your Main Character Energy to an artist’s cottage in the Cotswalds, a camper van with your kids in the mountains in Montana, or your activist community in Oregon.
We'll help you escape the boredom of midlife, delight in honoring your joy, get out on adventures of your choosing, and fall deepy in love with the life you live.