You're already living it, love.

You just told me something important:

You're not waiting to be happy.

You've built a life you're proud of, imperfections and all, and now you're ready for the fun part...

finding someone to share it with.

I love that.

So here's what happens next:

I'd love to invite you into The Field, my private Telegram channel...

a little corner of the internet for the real, unfolding, sometimes messy terrain of dating in your 40s.

The one none of us should have to walk alone.

This is where I share what I'm noticing, live, as it happens.

My own dating life. Stories from the women I coach (with their consent, of course). Patterns I keep seeing show up.

And every so often, something I haven't told anywhere else, not on Instagram, not in my emails, the parts that felt too tender or too in progress to share anywhere but here.

It’s a channel, so it’s not a group chat. It’s a place to listen. And it’s also solidarity.

It's the "wait, that happened to you too?" relief of realizing you're not the only one out here trying to figure this out.

It's free, it's intimate, and it's the closest thing to sitting across from me at coffee. :)

If you don't yet have the app Telegram, you may need to download it first.

Here’s a link to download Telegram.

Here’s your link & special invite to join:

The Field ~ Voice Notes (from me) on dating & finding love

~ for smart, single babes over 40.

See you there! xx